Dealing with behaviour from my conditions

People are very much at odds about dealing with complex adult kids that in a way seems odd given when legally I was one and you were handled in just the same way as any other at the time regardless of disability or syndrome.

When you see what is about to come your way your eyes become fixated upon it.

I do find spanking helps with my alertness and concentration.

The tears are real and a sign of genuine regret for your actions

In the intervening years the psychological and medical understanding of Autism with ADHD which is one of my major disabilities has improved when it come to explaining why my brain sees and acts the way it does but in working so much on explaining, it has lead to a belief that when it comes to my actions all you should do is talk and take me out of situations.

It is very true to say "You cannot spank autism or adhd out of the child", it certainly is not a cure for my condition but I and others do need to learn to make better choices about how we deal with our feelings and at times I know mine are bad and have impact on others.

It is also worth thinking about my capacity to control them which in some ways is not much dissimilar to a younger child.

"There is nothing wrong with you that a spanking can't cure"

There is little outside of that moment I am in a meltdown to suggest I am incapable of thinking through things better, which might be to ask for a pause in a situation rather than just kicking off so we can work through it.

Nor is it I can remember past experiences and draw from them provided they have left a powerful lesson imprinted on my memory.

Spanking should be used as a first resort when I do something dangerous, lie or disobey you. Spanking should also be used when other punishments have failed to stop my misbehaviour. 

Spanking me very firmly for my inappropriate responses to my Autism and ADHD doesn't cure my condition but can help cure of of those responses that ultimately set me back getting on in society.

There is NOTHING wrong with me that a spanking can't cure when it comes to my behaviour.

Tammy should be spanked for hur autistic tantrums and adhd behaviour firmly as much they also can be helped to manage hur condition so avoid getting to a point they may react badly.

You cannot spank away my autism and adhd but you can spank away my behavioural responses by providing a strong, painful and powerful deterrent to them and I am capable of learning through that.

The spring sissy

We're getting into spring now so expect a series of posts connected around  and concerning getting about at this time of and the adventures from it.

Spring is a time for sissy gurls like me to work on our prettiest, most cute looks, letting more of our gurlishness out. 

This weeks mini entry looks at fashion.

The spring fashions here have been interesting not least the popularity of Pinafore Dresses in a variety of differing lengths and materials. Here's one I recently bought which has a cotton/elastane top part (the Pinafore), the lower is portion is jersey in a just above the knee length.

It ties up at the back.

Kalashnikitty

....And now for something different! Let's say I've always had a soft spot for things like Hello Kitty, the cultish Japanese iconic character but this un-official pose is one I truly adore. If it wasn't for the 'Gun Talk' rules on a certain website, I'd have it as my avatar. To me it kind of symbolizes the mixture of the innocent with the knowing - the bit that just might have to use force or weapons.

Early sound adventures

 

There have been a member of constants in my life of which a love of music specifically recorded music is one of them.

This recorded which as originally issued in 1958 but my copy which was reissued in 1963 is something I have owned since the age of 8 was a very early demonstration disc designed to show with Geoffrey Sumner narrating just what stereophonic sound which was in its infancy then could offer the listener.

It remains in excellent condition being very well cared for.

It has a mixture of 1950's popular, big band and orchestral recordings that to this day sound incredible for their era, a testament to the Decca recording engineers and is lead off with a recording of a steam train setting off which by ten years time had been fully removed from British Railways regular services in favour of diesel-electric ones

Anime and how I am

Football isn't the only thing I like to be honest, anime is another.

The thing is while I like shows such as Naruto, nearly all my anime tastes tend to be girls "slice of life" series with magical girls, school based stories and humongous helpings of cuteness. 

A show like Lucky Star set in school with uniforms is very much my thing and really it is a clear cut indication how much a feminine boy I am that I seek out and enjoy such animes.

At long last this is being marketed in England!

Cute looking Japanese chocolate on a biscuit stick with a small portion uncoated to make handling a less sticky affair.

Now if we get the fruit flavoured Pokey more readily available here it would be great.